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How to Greet Someone in French: Bonjour, Bonsoir, Salut

Level A14 min readLanguage French

In France, the greeting is not small talk — it is the price of admission. Walk into a shop, call a stranger, ask a question: bonjour comes first, always. Skip it and people think you are rude. Say it and doors open.

This guide covers the three French greetings from Polyglot French Episode 1 with Camille and Leo: when each one is right, how to pronounce them, and the two magic words to learn next.

Bonjour: always first

Bonjour means hello, good morning, and good day in one word — usable from morning until evening. Break it down: bon (lips round like “bone”, sound through the nose — feel the buzz) + jour (soft j, like the s in “measure”, not the hard English j). Bon… jour. Say it out loud.

Bonsoir: after 6 PM

Evening version, same music: bon + soir (“swahr”). Use it after about six in the evening — arriving at a restaurant, a hotel reception, greeting a host. Daytime: bonjour. Evening: bonsoir. Simple.

Salut: friends only

Salut means hi — friendly, relaxed, and it doubles as bye. But it is informal only: friends, young people, never your boss or a stranger. Survival rule: when in doubt, bonjour. It is always safe.

Two magic words

“S'il vous plaît” — please — formal; use it everywhere
“Merci (beaucoup)” — thank you (very much)
“Excusez-moi” — excuse me — formal
“Au revoir” — goodbye

Next: ça va ?

The question you will hear a hundred times a day in France: “Ça va ?” (sah vah) — how is it going. Answer: “Ça va bien, merci.” Casual, friendly, everywhere. With these two phrases you can never truly be lost.

Your first 10 French words

Leave this page with ten words you can use today:

“Bonjour / Bonsoir / Salut” — the three greetings
“Merci” — thank you
“S'il vous plaît” — please
“Oui / Non” — yes / no
“Au revoir” — goodbye
“Ça va ?” — how's it going?

Sounds that don't exist in English

Two French sounds make the biggest difference. Nasal vowels: bon, an, en, on — let the air flow through your nose instead of your mouth. English has nothing like them, which is exactly why they mark you as a real speaker the moment you nail them. Silent finals: most final consonants are not pronounced — Paris ends at the “ee” sound, merci ends at “see”. When in doubt, drop the last letter and you will usually be right.

Your first mini-dialogue

Everything on this page in one exchange. Read it out loud, both parts:

“You” — Bonjour ! Je m'appelle… Comment tu t'appelles ?
“Friend” — Salut ! Je m'appelle Camille. Ça va ?
“You” — Ça va bien, merci. Au revoir !

Tu vs vous: don't guess

French has two “you”s. Tu is for friends, family, children, and people your age in relaxed settings. Vous is for strangers, elders, officials, and anyone in a formal moment — it is also the plural “you”. Rule of thumb: start with vous, and let the French person offer tu (“on peut se tutoyer ?”). Getting this right matters more than perfect pronunciation — it signals respect instantly.

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This guide pairs with French Episode 1: Speak French from Day One — watch the full lesson and grab the free study PDF.

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